Showing posts with label introversion. Show all posts
Showing posts with label introversion. Show all posts

Monday, November 16, 2009

Maruska, The Hermit

This last week was total hermitting. Very much needed hermitting.


I am a dichotomy of introverted and extroverted, of social and anti-social. I have very strong needs for both.


Which is why when I do too much of one, I also go to the extremes of the other.


Thus after an extremely social week (almost week and half), I needed... NEEDED.. a week of nothing.


I literally only left my apt for groceries and getting the mail, with one exception which was business related. I hermitted until Thursday when I ventured out to Panera and then went shoe shopping... if you can count a quick lunch at Panera and shoe shopping as unhermitting.. I still did them both alone. Happily alone I'll add.


It wasn't really until about 11pm Friday night that I even mildly got a hankering for company. I didn't really want to be social mind you, but I would have liked the company similar to that of a roomate. No need for makeup or getting dressed up, you can lounge around in your way too old but comfy stained sweatshirt and relax. That is the kind of company I thought would be good, unfortunately I know no one in town that would fit that bill.


But it was a good week. A good chilling out, doing exactly nothing week, and I needed it.