I may have been wrong.
Maybe.
It's really hard to say because I am so very often right (really I'm not full of myself or anything), so this is completely new to me... its really hard to say.
But ..
He thought of me today.
It wasn't one of those "Hey sweety, I was thinking of you" sort of messages. But he saw something that reminded him of a conversation we had, and sent me a link to update me on it. Aka "Saw this, thought you'd find it interesting [link to article about what we'd talked about]"
Guys.. if you really want to win a girl.. and have a relationship.. shit like that will get you everywhere.
Remembering random things that she's said from previous conversations.. for example this particular thing was from a conversation that happened about a week ago... and giving her more information on that topic or asking her input on a link about that subject..
If she likes you at all.. she's going to swoon. It shows that you do listen to her, but not only that.. you listened to the point that when you saw that topic again, you not only had a passing thought of her, but had a strong enough thought of her to go out of your way to tell her about the topic or inform her on something you thought she might care about based on that conversation.
So.. right now I'm swooning a bit. Ok, I'm swooning a lot.
So.. maybe I was wrong.. maybe he does like me?
Or maybe he just really happened across something, and figured as a friend I needed to know?
I'm just going to go with... he likes me. Because a little delusional hopeful thinking never hurt anyone.. right?
Plus.. I rock. How could he not?
Yes, you rock, how could he not?
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